Why is the “first night” always not expecting happiness?
Yang, 28 years old, works at a securities company in Shanghai. She was put on a wedding dress on July 22nd. When the topic turned from the grand scene of the important celebration of life that had just been completed to the sweet wedding night, sheThere was a blush on the face of the white cockroach: nothing, really nothing, it seems to have passed away.
銆€銆€Yang’s wedding night is really not much to remember.
Originally intended to travel to Thailand to marry, but because of too many friends to entertain, and changed the plan, so I rushed to arrange new houses, distributed invitations, and finally set up 720 tables in the restaurant line according to the wishes of the two old people.
銆€銆€On the 22nd, it was a weekend. When I got up early, I didn’t have time to go. I dressed up and dressed up. Mr. Yang was taken over and stood in front of the restaurant to meet the guests. Then there was the ceremony, and then the toast was endless.
After a few hours, Yang has been tossed back pain, his eyes straight, changed a suit, and then entered the section of the room.
When all the guests were happy, Mr. Yang and his head fell to the bed, and even the desire to dream was gone.
銆€銆€Chuanmei Zijing, pays special attention to her wedding.
Jing knows that people’s sexual attitudes are already open, and virgins are not virgins. It seems that not many people are being pursued.
However, Jing feels that if a woman receives a woman, she still needs a special ceremony.
Not for others, just need to do it yourself.
銆€銆€Therefore, Jing resolutely rejected a few boyfriends who knew that they would go to bed not long after.
For so many years, Jing has been guarding her own virginity, and she will give herself to her husband very grandly on the wedding night.
From the moment she set her happy days, she has fantasized many times to imagine the moment of swaying, and her expectations have become a pond of rainy nights in repeated fantasy.
With the happiness of her happiness, she devoted herself to the wedding reserve, and kept busy: from the decoration of the new house to the choice of furniture and the dowry.
銆€銆€The most exciting moment finally arrived. As a result, it was not the case at all. The two men had tossed up a bit, and the husband was venting, but he had to accept the soldiers in disappointment.
After thinking about it, Jing even regretted it. I knew it was like this. When I had passion before marriage, I should seize the opportunity and enjoy my first time. There is only one “first night” right in a lifetime.
銆€銆€I couldn’t fully enjoy the happiness of the wedding night, and Yang’s marriage life was so unspeakable.
In fact, Yang and Jing did not realize that they all committed the taboo of the wedding night: during the short-term or long preparation for marriage, they spent excessively unscrupulously spending, waiting for the “right day”, the heart has more than enoughNot enough is not enough.
銆€銆€Preserving strength, paying attention to rest before marriage, and properly adjusting diet are of course the best policy.
However, to be realistic, it is inevitable that marriages will be complicated and exhausting.
But despite this, there are still some secrets that will make you passionate when you are noisy, and you will be able to spend the first time in your married life.of.
銆€銆€Continue to warm up: Wedding day is your most favored day, almost every minute and second, your newly married husband will be with you, so you can’t miss this opportunity to enhance your feelings, from which he can see you.From the very first time, your gaze will be “centered on him”, and he will look at him from beginning to end. He will whisper in his ear from time to time and tell him how you feel happy.
銆€銆€Drinks help “sex”: After entering the room, first come to the favorite drinks, which not only allows you to take a break, to keep up the good work, while drinking, you can also play a little trick to pick up each other’s lust.
銆€銆€Create a passion: If you have a tub at home, it’s better.
You can change the silk pajamas, put in the bath water, add the refreshing spice in the water, soak yourself in the shower and invite the lover to bathe.
銆€銆€Supplemental feeding: It is beneficial to eat some foods that can provoke lust, such as chocolate, almonds, strawberries, or the desserts that both of you love. You can also put a pot of fruit in the bedroom and feed it to the other party.
銆€銆€Seeking inspiration: If your “he” doesn’t like eating or lacking romantic taste, you can also have a way to try a new southeast with him, such as preparing a VCD that he always wanted to see.
銆€銆€Show sexy: shyness is a common problem for newly married women. To get a passionate wedding night, it is natural to use personal temperament as the best way.
In life, every girl has to close the door, quietly put on sexy pajamas, and experience in front of the mirror, and tonight, you are his most beautiful bride, why not let him be your audience, show yourCharming, let him be completely dumped by your charm?
銆€銆€Relaxing emotions: No matter how deep and shallow you are with him, the wedding night will still make you nervous, you can start jokes and even mock each other.
You can also dim a little light and gently massage the other’s body with massage oil. The nervous emotion will naturally dissolve, and then gradually massage to a more secret part.
As for the tension that is added to fear of pregnancy, you should be prepared in advance: if you use a condom, you should put the condom on the pillow beforehand; if you take the oral contraceptive, you will start taking the medicine on the 5th day before the marriage.
After taking 22 tablets, the drug was stopped. This is a cycle.
銆€銆€Doing anything, it is inevitable that you are in a hurry, your interest is sorrowful, and so is sex.
With a little preparation, the exhausted wedding night will become sweet and beautiful, and will remain in your memory forever, to please your body and mind, and to nourish your love.
銆€銆€Need to be reminded that before marriage, you should set up a 鈥済entleman agreement鈥?with your partner to ensure that you don’t have sexual contact for a long time before 鈥淗appy Days鈥? so you will naturally get a night in the bridal chamber.A more passionate night.
銆€銆€Of course, the most fundamental way is to dare to break the old stereotypes in the wedding, not to compare with the field, and this requires some courage.